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A Riot of Heelers

We spent most of yesterday sawing back and forth, emotions and logic battling it out, leaving us weary and unsure. Should we go look at the dog I believe to be Jinx’s sister? Should we leave well enough alone? Should we introduce chaos into a two-dog house that have finally reached a certain balance? What if she doesn’t fit in? What if our dogs’ personalities change and they become tense and unhappy?

I watched the clock swing towards 100 pm, the hour the animal shelter opens on Saturdays. The dogs were asleep; Mrs. Orr and I were silent, brooding our own thoughts to ourselves. I walked up to Bonnie’s grave and stood for a while. Then I came down to the house, changed clothes, and approached my wife, who was reading.

“Let’s go look at her.”

My wife’s face changed, though I am not sure I can describe it. Perhaps guarded would be the word. She nodded and put her shoes on and we got in the car and headed north.

When we reached the shelter, we saw a sign on the door. “Open by appointment only.” Ours was the only car there, and when I tried the door, it was locked. I started to get back into the car, when I heard someone at the door. A middle-aged man greeted us and bid us come on in. “Y’all want to look at the dogs?” he asked. He was mentally handicapped and had a mild speech impediment and a sweet smile. We followed him to another door and passed through it into a large kennel area. A friendly lady of about our age said hello and invited us around to the back aisle so that we could walk and look at the dogs. We were impressed with the cleanness and airiness of the place.

There were some very nice looking dogs housed there. My heart ached at the hopeful looks most of them gave us as we walked past. About halfway down the aisle, Mrs. Orr said, “Is this her?”

I turned and looked. I had walked right by her because I was expecting a dog the size of Jinx. But there she was, a miniature JInx, looking so much like him that it made me shake my head. She weighed perhaps 25-30 pounds at the most, whippet-lean. She was wagging her tail which was curved over her back…just like Jinx’s does. Mrs. Orr offered her hand, and the little dog licked her fingers, tail still a-waggin’.

The lady offered a leash and we snapped it on and went outside, where we walked her along the road behind the shelter. Another dog was exercising in the fenced run, and when the staff member finished there, we went to the long enclosure and let the dog off the leash. We watched her while chatting with the woman. Mrs. Orr asked her several questions. The dog had been at the shelter for about a month, and she had apparently had at least one litter of puppies. A few more medical questions from Mrs. Orr and then we leashed the dog again and walked her a bit more. My wife looked at me carefully, then said, “All right, then.”

The woman said, “Well, do you think you want her?” We both said yes at the same time. The woman smiled broadly and said, “God bless you! Let’s go in and do a little paperwork.

So we went back in and returned the dog to her kennel; she did NOT want to leave us. We went to the office and completed and signed the paperwork.  Thirty dollars cash for a little life. I felt that the figure was a reversal of Judas’s betrayal of our Lord. He sold the Savior for thirty pieces of silver. We bought a pretty little dog for thirty dollars. Then another thirty came into play…the lady asked us to return within 30 days with proof that the dog had been spayed. I fetched a leash from our car and we went back to the kennel and took possession of the dog. The lady asked if she could take a photo for their records, a “Happy Adoption Day!” We agreed and posed for a photo. On the walk to the car, a man and his young daughter arrived to look at the dogs. The little girl was smiling broadly at our new dog as we passed.

I lifted her into the back of the car — how light she was! — and we headed home. We were only a few miles down the road when the dog climbed over the seat from the hatchback and into Mrs. Orr’s lap. She sat quietly for the entire trip home.

Home. All those daydreams of Jinx falling in love with his sister and romping in joy with her faded immediately when he caught sight of the newcomer. Suffice it to say that he was not happy. Dixee was her usual high-strung self, yapping and yipping like a college girl who just got patted on the fanny.

We put up baby gates to keep the new arrival in the office, with a bed and water dish. Jinx and Dixee went from door to door, baking, growling, resenting, challenging. They soon settled down, and the new dog lay on her bed, alert and listening while Mrs. Orr and I talked names. We had already decided that my idea of “Caprice” was impetuous and wrong-headed. It was a fancy-dancy name and it simply didn’t fit her.

We have always been partial to Texas-ish names and country names. We ran through a long list of potentials, discussing them while Jinx walked to the baby gates and barked at the intruder. I will confess to wondering if he wasn’t at least a little unsettled by the fact that he was barking at a miniature him.

The people at the shelter had nicknamed the dog “Baby,” and it fit her, because she was showing herself to be a sweet baby girl. But we didn’t want to keep that name. Finally, Mrs. Orr hit on one that we both immediately liked: Bluebelle. It’s old-timey and has a strong Texas connotation. It’s also a play on words. She is part blue heeler, and the word belle means “beautiful.” A beautiful blue — Bluebelle.

So our new dog is Bluebelle. Did I mention that our favorite ice cream is Bluebell? Made in Texas? It is sweet and delightful.

We took Jinx and Bluebelle for a walk last night before dark, with me holding Jinx’s leash and Mrs. Orr taking Bluebelle, keeping about twenty feet from us. For the most part, they did very well, though Jinx wanted to circle back like Jen Psaki and glare at his sister. She’s a very good leash walker, never pulling nor willful, but content to keep an easy pace with the leash slack between her and the hand. The lady at the shelter told us that she is housebroken, and this has proven to be the case with one small exception. While Jinx was exploring outside this morning, we let her wander through the house and explore a bit on her own. Just as she was completing the tour, she stopped in the middle bedroom and tinkled a tiny bit on the (thankfully!) hardwood floor. I immediately put her out in the back yard. A short while later, I looked out to see her, goat-like, standing on the table, peering in the kitchen window.

My wife and I slept on the sectional couch last night, with Bluebelle sequestered in the office. Jinx spent the night on my legs like a spotted sack of cement. Bluebelle never made a sound, and we all slept very well. I am aware of my blessings this morning, even with barks and growls in the background.

As I write this, Bluebelle is in a small enclosure in the office, lying on her bed with a water dish nearby. The baby gates are down. Jinx keeps moseying in to check on her, but so far the barking has been minimal. While Jinx was outside, we leashed both the girls and let them do a meet and greet, and Dixee did better than we expected. A little growling and a little whining, but Bluebelle was calm and composed and made no sudden moves, and we were a bit more relaxed.

I also bathed Bluebelle last night, because she had a solid case of kennel-funk. Anticipating a big fight like the ones Jinx always offers when I bathe him, I covered the bathroom floor with towels, got the water to the right temperature, positioned the shower sprayer, placed the bottle of Dawn dish soap at hand, took a deep breath, and went to get Bluebelle. I lifted her little frame into the tub, and she stood there, as still as a horse in a stable, and let me wet her down, lather her up, scrub her from stem to stern, port to starboard, above and below, and she never flinched except when I sprayed the water a bit too close to her eyes.  She was as stoic as Marcus Aurelius during the bath…such a relief for me. I toweled her off and then Mrs. Orr took over with the blow dryer (which the girl did not like). So she smells a lot better and seems very mellow.

My prayer is that Jinx finds his mellow soon. I hope that, once he’s used to Bluebelle, they will indeed have themselves a time.

And now Mrs. Orr and I must discuss logistics…the feeding and bathroom routines, etc. I do not want Bluebelle’s presence to be a source of stress for my lovely wife, so it is important that we get these things settled. Improvisation and chaos are not conducive to peace and quiet, so we will map these things out.

It’s a beautiful, crisp day here at our little farm. I pray that it is a happy, mellow one as well.

Blessings to all of you, and a special thank you to those who prayed about this very significant step my wife and I took yesterday.

~ S.K. Orr

8 Comments

  • Genie

    I sent you a nice long e-mail from today’s post, then read below for the rest of the story! All I will add to what I sent earlier is that when we brought Nyx home – five hours in the car in a little cage – she sat in the exact middle and crouched down like a rabbit in a storm. About an hour out, I told my husband I couldn’t take it anymore – he is pragmatic, keeps me on the straight and narrow and we’d already had the chat about how small she was and could get in the front under the brake or gas pedal if she got spooked – and he agreed tht she seemed very afraid and frozen. So he stopped, let me climb into the back seat and take her out of the cage, and she slept on my shoulder against my neck the rest of the way home. She is now fully bonded with ME, thank goodness, since the other two love my husband best. He has animal magnetism, literally. So thinking Bluebelle might have adopted Mrs. Orr as her foster mom. 😉

    • admin

      I received your email with thanks, Genie, and will respond when I have time to give it the attention it deserves.

      Yes, Bluebelle has definitely latched onto my wife as her mama. And Mrs. Orr isn’t exactly complaining about this.

  • Heather Shaler

    I was thinking about her sweet face all last week, and my prayer was, “Thy will be done,” because I know how delicate these matters are. I’m really glad you got her!

    Two things in this post stand out to me. The first is that you mention smiles several times. The enemy tries to make us feel alone against the world, that we might as well give up and submit. I now live in a pretty good area, birdemic-wise, but it’s still refreshing to hear that people still smile and don’t hide it behind a mask. In my old city, I had two or three female neighbors bitingly tell me that it was so nice to see my husband’s *smiling face* at the grocery store. Like they were telling on him, and I was supposed to punish the bad boy. Ha!

    The other thing that stands out is how much you love your wife, value her opinions and thoughts, and care about her stress and workload. I’m about as anti-feminist as one can be, yet I’m increasingly alarmed at how people who claim to be on our side think women and wives ought to be treated. Luckily those articles are mostly written by men who couldn’t get a wife unless he clubbed her over the head and dragged her back to his cave. Actually I’ll bet they couldn’t even do that.

    • admin

      As always, you are so kind, Heather.

      Yes, smiles are easy to see for the most part in this area. The mask madness has subsided quite a bit. The only places one sees them here are in medical offices and certain government buildings, and among the elderly (with their worried eyes) and the repulsively virtue-signaling (with the smug smirks which one can see even when concealed by a mask. Or two masks. Because no one is safe until we’re all safe! Screech! Squeal! The women who tried to rat our your husband…I’d like to ask them, “Are you vaccinated? Yes? Then what are you worried about? Are you worried about catching polio, or rubella, or whooping cough? No? Why’s that? Ah….reality hurts, doesn’t it?”

      I do indeed love my wife. She is, as I have said so many times, the best and most noble human being I have ever known in my life. I am astounded that she can tolerate a man as deeply flawed as her husband. She’s extraordinarily easy to love.

      I’ve noticed the same sort of behavior and language from some men directed at some women. I wouldn’t excuse it, but I would say that I suspect a lot of it is a reaction to the shrill, unhinged behavior of some women, women who are very public in their acting out and who seem emotionally incontinent and horrifyingly immature and narcissistic. But as you pointed out, a lot of the men who talk and act this way are not exactly prize specimens themselves, and wouldn’t be worthy of a good woman if she jumped into his arms.

      This is one of many reasons I am so deeply grateful for Christ and for the peace — not an easy life, not a trouble-free life, but the peace that comes when one seeks to follow Him with one’s whole heart.

      It’s always a delight to hear from you, Heather. May God bless you and your family.

  • JAMES

    Although I wouldn’t put money on it, I had a sneaking feeling that she would end up a resident in the houshold. Good on you sir, everyone needs a home and family.

    • admin

      I’m glad your sneaking feeling was accurate, James. We’re very glad she’s here, especially after today’s events (more on that in my next post), and we hope she’s glad to be with us.

  • Craig Davis

    I’m glad to hear that everyone is settling in to the new arrival at Orr Farm and that Bluebell seems to be a spotted antimenace. May this be the start of a happy new chapter. Give all the pups a scratch behind the ear from me.

    • admin

      Many thanks, Craig. It’s been crazy at the house, but we’re settling in. Bluebelle is getting spayed today, so we’ll hopefully get all the rough stuff out of the way first. And per your request, scratches have been given.